Friday, October 23, 2009

either a Man or a Woman

damn. compulsory heterosexuality.
who told you guy muz like girl. girl muz like guy...
argh..
i could feel how confined we are living in a hetero-normative society..
when i was trying to buy baby clothes yesterday...
its jumpers are either pink or blue.
wat the....
i didnt want to ask about the baby's gender...
but i was forced to...
if not how i buy...
argh...
we're assigned to be in certain gender categories from da day we're born....
and expected to grow up fulfilling the characteristics of that gender....
lie being masculine or feminine...
i felt bit guilty at the thought of buying girly clothes for the yet-to-be-born baby girl.
but the baby clothes are damn cute....i was enjoying myself buying them...
haha...


pardon me..
cuz just finished a 2000 words essay on Judith Butler's gender performativity...
few days ago...
way to go, Butler...

and oh.. i'm very into Kumar these days...
he's so pretty when he's in drag....
lol...

Monday, October 12, 2009

99balloons

beautiful child.
beautiful parents.
beautiful love.


www.ninetynineballoons.com

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=th6Njr-qkq0&feature=PlayList&p=24037F09F724000A&playnext=1&playnext_from=PL&index=8


i cried real hard.....